First - Be neat and clean. Become a neat and clean. Most Russian women are much more neat and tidy than men. Russian women are quite painfully react to men's carelessness, even if silent. Become a little more carefully, and you will save a minimum of 20% of the problems in the family. Wash a little more often, wash, wash the dishes, etc.
Second - Make your chores without being asked. Do in their own home on their own, without a reminder. No matter how much you make at home, 20%, 70 or 100% of household duties. Russian woman will still be unhappy if their performance you need to repeatedly remind execution control, and after doing something permanently altered. Notice, man, I did not say, do more housework.